Sunday, February 10, 2013

A CHOICE MADE

I handed in my resignation on Thursday and now I am once again unemployed. I suppose many of you are wondering why I would resign from one job before I even have another, but the truth is, I am not the person I was back in 2010 and 2011 and I am no longer happy with doing certain things.

With this job there was just too much responsibility, expectations and in truth, the salary was ridiculously low for the amount of work expected. In 2010 and 2011 I was happy to do the low paying, high stress job because I just wanted my career to start somewhere. Now I am 27 years old, I have been there and done that and I was supposed to move up career wise, not take two steps back.

I guess working as a freelance writer from September 2011 until November 2012 has changed me more than I thought possible. I now know that I want to be successful and I want to have pride in what I do. Things got so bad at this job that I couldn't sleep and I was completely stressed out all the time, which made me realize that I was losing myself. I was changing into someone I hated and my writing suffered. 

My family are trying to be supportive, but in truth a few of them are really disappointed in me. I feel really bad too because I couldn't stick it out like I did in 2010 and 2011 (doing the same job), but the job was ruining me. I made the choice and though I don't regret it, I feel guilty. This is the first time I ever quite and somehow my brain hasn't accepted that I won't be going to work tomorrow.

5 comments :

  1. Sometimes you just have to do what you think is right, and not listen to other people. It sounds like you're happy with the decision. I hope you find something else fantastic!

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  2. Hi! Best of luck with everything. You've got an award over on my blog if you want it! :-)

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  3. I agree with what Annalisa said. You have to do what you think is right for you. And if the job was ruining you, then a change definitely had to be made.

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  4. It sounds like you made a good decision. A job should not ruin you. Best of luck to you.

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  5. Annalisa - Thank you so much for the kind words and for always being there for me.

    Linda - Thank you! I love awards!

    M.J. - Thank you for understanding and for always seeing things my way.

    Jai - Thank you so much.

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